FACTORS TO CONSIDER BEFORE SAYING "YES, I DO"

Marriage is a lifelong commitment that requires careful thought and consideration. Before saying "yes, I do," there are several important factors to consider. It is essential to reflect on various aspects of your life and relationship before making such a significant decision.

Firstly, it is crucial to evaluate your readiness for marriage. Are you emotionally prepared to share your life with someone else? Marriage involves compromise, sacrifice, and the ability to navigate through challenges together. Assessing your emotional maturity and stability is vital to ensure a strong foundation for a successful marriage.

Additionally, it is essential to examine the compatibility between you and your partner. Do you share similar values, goals, and aspirations? Open and honest communication is key in any relationship, especially when considering marriage. Discussing important topics such as finances, children, and career aspirations can help determine if you are on the same page and ready to embark on this journey together.

Furthermore, it is crucial to assess the overall health of your relationship. Are there any unresolved conflicts or issues that need to be addressed before committing to marriage? It is essential to work through any challenges and ensure that both partners are willing to put in the effort to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Financial stability is another significant aspect to consider. Marriage often involves merging finances and sharing responsibilities. It is important to have open and honest discussions about financial goals, spending habits, and potential challenges that may arise. Being on the same page financially can help prevent future conflicts and ensure a stable foundation for your marriage.

The family background of your partner should be considered before saying ‘yes I do’. 

Do they come from a good family background? Did they have both parents present in the early years of their life?  If not, why. Do they have a history of violence or hereditary disease? All these questions and more should be asked and answered. 

You should not just end up with someone without knowing a friend or family member of your partner. I know someone who got married to their partner without knowing the family background of the partner.

The worst part was that they got married without the partner’s family involved, it was only his ‘friends’ that were available. Today this person is regretting the marriage because they started noticing things about their partner that they didn’t know before.The bottom line is, to know your partner’s family background. Know their tribe, family members, friends, type of people they role with, hobbies, likes and dislikes. If you can know everything known about that person, it would be advised you do so.

Lastly, it is important to listen to your intuition. Trust your instincts and ask yourself if you genuinely believe that this person is the right partner for you. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it is crucial to enter into it with a genuine desire to build a life together.

In conclusion, before saying "yes, I do," take the time to evaluate your readiness for marriage, assess compatibility, address any unresolved issues, consider financial stability, and trust your instincts. By carefully considering these factors, you can make an informed decision and embark on a lifelong journey with confidence and clarity.